Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Love this and needed this today!


Pretty sure I just need to write my thoughts down...no better place than on a blog that's been neglected for almost a year, right.
So, straight to it I go.
Christmas....If you don't believe in Christ, then don't celebrate it and leave it at that. 
No one has the right to take CHRIST out of Christmas! 
There are few topics I will fight for and this is definitely one of them.
  
Why do certain people feel the need to destroy something so amazing?  In fact, where do these people find the time to do so?!?  I hardly have a life and I can't imagine spending the spare time I have trying to ruin something so beautiful.
I am so sick and tired of "Politically Correct" or "Make sure everyone feels like they fit-in" crap that I could scream!
Toughen up and get over it!


Hot.
Is this not the reason(s) we are supposed to say Happy Holidays now or why we aren't allowed to pray in school anymore?  As most know, I love kids and would hate to ever have any of them feel left out.
BUT that to me is where the problem is!
Cancel everything so everyone feels like they fit in?
Brilliant.
I feel children are more resilient than what we as a society give them credit for.  I see too many parents getting their feelings hurt because they feel like their child isn't fitting in.  Ever wonder why the future of America doesn't know how or want to work?....obviously that is a stereotype...sort of.  Sure, I don't have children and may not understand.  However, I was a child once and I am grateful my parents let me live and learn.  They taught me how to work; which to me is such a gift within itself.  Not only that, my parents didn't fight my battles which taught me how to accept defeat...because it will happen. 
Strap them boots back on, get up and go at it again.
 It is okay that we are all different....Love One Another for who we are.

 While working in retail years ago, I was not allowed to say "Merry Christmas" to our customers.  Why?  Because that particular person may not celebrate it and I may offend him/her? 
Well, Guess what?
I celebrate Christmas!
Pretty soon, the majority will be the minority when it comes to Christmas.  It won't be about believing in Santa Clause anymore; more about believing in Christ or not.


I will NEVER let anyone change my belief that Christ is Christmas because without Him, I wouldn't be here.


I love my Savior.
Christmas is His day & always will be.
So anyway, now that I've been able to rant for a bit, this is the reason I felt inclined to write today.  I love it!

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

My Grace-Face

So, I know I talk about my African babies on a non-stop basis and I so appreciate all of you who have taken the time to listen to me start every other conversations with, "In Ghana...." or "While I was in Africa...".  I'm sure it can be pretty annoying but thank you.

Well, while I was in Africa, Ghana to be precise, I missed my family beyond words.  I find it funny that I felt so homesick for my family while I was gone yet I've gone several months at a time without seeing my family while in Utah.  I can only chalk it up to the whole, "I want what I can't have!" attitude.  Or maybe it was because I didn't have the option to just jump into my car and take a drive to Lehi to visit the family...but thats the same as wanting what I can't have, right?  
Who knows but either way, this post is not about my African Babies.

I've decided that I need to celebrate-publicly, my American babies....all 13.5 of the little stinker-bums!  
However, as usual, I will be the best aunt in the world and be fair by giving all of them their very own post and in no particular order.

Grace-Face Hanson


Sometimes when I'm hanging out at Megan and Pauls, I'll sit back and just watch the interaction that goes on within their loving home. At times I start feeling overwhelmed with happiness but right when I'm on the verge of tears in walks my little Grace-Face.  She breaks my urge to tear-up by saying some witty remark; which is usually accompanied by some sort of visual... which then leaves her father blushing and thinking either,
"Wow, thats my girl!"
or
"Wow, thats my girl?"


And her laugh is so contagious!


I so wish I could share some of the comments she has made but she would be devastated.
Grace has somewhat of a hard outer-shell but on the inside of her little shell is the softest heart ever.
She loves to keep up with the boys when it comes to competition and she has her own unique style; which I totally admire!
However, her little heart was with me the entire time I was away.
The teardrops that came from her eyes the night before I left were tears of 
pure love.
Other than my momma, I think Grace was who worried about me the most. 



She and her sister, Emma, have a relationship like Megan and I did when we were their ages.

LOVE/HATE!

However, when we recently attended the funeral of our cousin who passed away at the age of 15 from Cancer, I witnessed just how much Grace truly and genuinely loves Emma.  It was one of the most tender moments that I've shared with little Grace.


Some of the ironic things about Grace is 
she was born in November
she has a love for Africa, (even before she knew about mine)
she seems to be either black or white
(not a lot of grey in her life-think about the time you decided you'd try out for
your school choir group!)


at times, she has a tendency to be a bit crass (another word for crass is Graceless! :)) yet she is very, very shy at other times
she gets this look on her face that makes everyone around her wonder what the heck she is up to-so mysterious
she is one moody girl; especially when she's hungry
she is stubborn
she was born on a Monday
her African name is Adwua
she tries to come across tough yet she is actually very tender.
Grace is a Scorpio.....
Sydnee is a Scorpio....
(Dear Megan and Paul,
these are just a few of my observations 
so don't worry about her 
growing up to be like her crazy 
Aunt Sydnee.)



Grace will be the first to let you know just how wrong you are when you cut yourself down.  She immediately responds with a sweet compliment that makes you feel guilty for complaining in the first place.
She has taught me to be careful about what I say to myself.

Actually, Grace will be the first to let you know just how wrong you are after you've admitted it....period.


Grace has a strong love for animals.
She chose to start horseback riding lessons years ago and continues to love it.  
I truly believe it speaks volumes about a person, even a tiny person, when they connect with an animal and form a strong bond.  
Grace has this type of bond with not only the horse she rides, but with her
kitty-cat, Joey,
as well.




Grace, I am so blessed to get to be apart of your life.  You are so beyond beautiful.  You have a beauty within you that is rare and unique.
I absolutely love you with all of my heart.
Two of my forever favorite memories of you are going to be of the day you let me take you to singing tryouts and
then the day you let me curl your hair.
I had so much fun watching you feel the way you did.
Please always feel that beautiful no matter what your hair looks like.
The day you decided you were going to try out for the "performing" group at your school showed me just how wonderful and brave you truly are.  There is no holding you back when you decide you want to achieve something-please never lose that confidence.
You have the ability to conquer the world if you so desire.  
I am in awe of your wit and the way you like to spend money. ;)
I beg you to stay close to your family; even Emma.  I promise you one day, they will be who you want to spend most of your time with...sounds strange, I know.
Your momma and daddy love you so much-actually love doesn't even fully describe how they feel about you.
You are their baby and always will be.
Please stay close to each of them.
I can't wait until the day we get to go to Africa together!
The love you have for children less fortunate is raw and real-keep your focus on that type of love and charity, please.
Please stay close to Heavenly Father no matter what life may bring you.  He is who will carry you through the times you feel you can't walk anymore.  He is who will be there with open arms no matter what
-as will your family
-as will I.


I love-love-love you, Scooter, forever and for always! 


(Thanks, Megan, for letting me steal some of your photos.  Grace, I know a couple of the photos I posted are older but they are still some of my favorites of you!)





Sunday, March 11, 2012

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Touching


I saw this photo on the Invisible Children website this morning.  
I was so touched by it and thought I'd share it.

I know we've all had those days when we weren't quite sure of our purpose.


Tuesday, March 6, 2012

This Song Always Makes Me Smile!

Haha!  I love it!


Homework or....

So, I'm sitting here at my desk trying to finish up my homework, but as usual I start thinking about the amazing people in Ghana.  Again, as usual, I start exploring Ghana on that world-wide-web thing.  As I sit here I have tears streaming down my cheeks.
The tears today are of happiness.

Although the video I've posted isn't necessarily my story, it pretty much sums up my experience in Ghana.  The cute girl who made the video has inspired me to make my own video-within time.  My heart is still partly in Ghana so the emotions I have for the Ghanians are still too close to the surface.  These feelings make it difficult for me not to cry when I look at the pictures and videos I took of my own experience.  
Again, the tears come from both sadness (a sense of homesickness in a way) and happiness. 

I came across Morgan Hanson's (not Megan Hanson but close ;)) video while checking out orphanages in Ghana on the internet.  I feel she did a wonderful job at showing just how wonderful the children in Ghana are.  Yes, as a whole!  
I urge anyone who has a desire to travel to Africa, for whatever reason, to strongly consider Ghana as their destination.

The video is a bit on the longer side.  I'm sure some will get bored but hopefully not.  




One of the goals I have in life is to help others feel the same passion as I feel for children; whether its the children in Ghana or elsewhere-specifically children who need some extra love.





There are a few small things in this world that can bring an instant smile to my face no matter the circumstances.
Homework is definitely not one of those things.

I cannot wait to return.

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

I'm So Ready....


...to go back to Ghana.

So, if anyone is looking to sponsor my life so I can volunteer in Ghana please let me know!
;)
Just putting it out there!


Friday, December 30, 2011

Disneyland for $2.50

The last day of the term for the children was on December 15th.  Since funds were tight we had to cancel the Christmas program the children had been working very hard on.  So, I felt we still needed to do something fun for the children; not only for the end of the term but to make up for the loss of their program.

Not far from the school is a little playground for children to spend the day just playing and enjoying themselves.  I figured it was close enough that it wouldn't cost too much to transport the children and we wouldn't need to worry about the traffic.  

We kept the fun day we had planned as a secret all week because we knew it would blow their little minds if they knew beforehand and they had exams still to finish.

When I first saw the playground I was worried the children would be bored or not find it as fun as I hoped.  Mainly because the toys offered are toys most homes in America have just in their own backyard (with the exception of the castle).

Playground:







I was wrong...




 They jumped for joy and gave each other hugs once they saw what type of day they had ahead of them.

So cute!!!






I love her!


Just doing her own thing




and enjoying every moment of it!


Same as with most kids, when my little buddy gets quiet, I know he's up to something.  
I look over to see him going through one of the teachers bags.
 Then.....


In the picture above you can't really see but one of the other little boys, David, decided to drink someone's soda!

Little thieves!


Checkout his strut! 
Checkout David making his escape in the background.






For those of you who know who Nelly is, he reminds me of Nelly SO much 
(as far as looks go)!



Busted!


The glasses belong to Maxwell's mother so he got his shot at wearing them too!


Honestly, this small playground was their own huge DisneyLand.  However, it cost me the same amount for 33 kids as it would for just one child at Disneyland. 

It was such a fun way to end the term and to make up for the missed Christmas program.  They got to sing a few of their Christmas songs just before we left the playground.

The memories I get to keep of each child's smile will last me a lifetime. 


Monday, December 26, 2011

Bull What?!?

As I was in a taxi driving down one of the busier streets here, I saw a 
HUGE bull
tied to a little tree with a little rope.

Imagine a bunch of beautiful people dressed in their Sunday best, walking to church right past a huge bull.

Spiritual.

I can pretty much guarantee that I will never see a bull tied to any tree 
on 
State Street 
in 
SLC.

Oh, I love what I get to see in Ghana!




Saturday, December 24, 2011